3.14. Pi day.
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Still sick, I’m intent on spending the day editing photos and watching movies, eager to recover.
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A psoriasis commercial:
“Psoriasis is a sign of an overactive immune system”
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I think of my father – he’s had this flaky skin disorder, once a cause of adolescent embarrassment during introductions to my friends, as far back as I can remember. I’m relieved that my old man’s got a powerful defense mechanism, even if we haven’t spoken in a month.
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Micron lays her paw on my arm and gazes into my eyes with those black oceans of pure dog love, then begins to urgently lick my face.
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The phone rings.
“Hi, grandma!”
“Hi. How are you?”
“Pretty sick, actually.”
“Oh. Your father died.”
The delivery is so dry, I ask if she’s joking.
Dad, 1950 – 2011
I’m so sorry. I only know you through your blog (a virtual world, if you will) but the loss of a parent is very real and very hard. There are no right words, but know that you surround by love and support both in the real world and online. Like Hacky said regardless of what your relationship may have been my condolences are with you and your family in this sad time.
Poxozhe ne 4itaetsya russkaya raskladka. Xotela skazat: derzhis’. mi vse s toboi.
Hello, I’ve been a silent watcher of your blog going on two years now. But when reading this, I decide I had to say something. You’re going to hear this a lot, but I am truly sorry for your loss. I know all to well how it is to lose your father, I lost mine last year. I just wanted to say, I saw that you mentioned that you haven’t talked to him in a month, please don’t feel any guilt or regret, these things just happen. Your such a wise woman, I would hate to see feel that way. Well anyway, I hope everything is okay, get plenty of hugs from Ales, Micron and your mother, they are there for you.
Be well.
I’m so sorry.
Although I’ve never met you, my thoughts are with you. Sending you lots of love. My heart goes out to you.
I’m so sorry to hear-sending you and yours love and light.
I’m so sorry. It’s difficult for me to tell how sorry I am in english but my thoughts are with you and your family.
my love & heart goes out to you. Best regards.
My heart and thoughts go out to you.
Know that we all love you and are sending you the best ju-ju we can muster.
Please take care of yourself.
I’m so sorry. I lost my beloved Dad last year too, and had to face the horror of realising I deliberately didn’t pick up the phone the last time he rang me before he died. It was suicide. A part of me died too.
Much love to you, be kind to yourself and let everyone and anyone in who wants to help you.
Hugs,
Angela.
i honestly must have missed most of this due to not really having the web information sink in. last night a mutual friend told me – and i seriously had to re-read everything from the past week to make sure it was real.
i’m sorry for your loss Zo, and I can’t begin to add more than what these hundreds of lovely people have said. But I hope that you are okay, and if you need anyting i’m a phonecall/email away. <3
wow, that’s a horrible way for her to say it and for you to find out. I’m so sorry. Big hugs. If you need anything, let me know. Although we only met once, I do live in the same city as you so if you need anything, let me know.
I’m so sorry to hear that. :(
I’ve been looking to you for fashion/art/reading tips & inspiration for since highschool (class of ’99) & even though we’ve never met I think look up to you greatly. My thoughts are with you the most at this time & cannot imagine how you feel. I can only empathize & send you best wishes from my heart. Sincere condolence’s.. Regards, Jenny
I’ve never met you, but I always have looked up to you, and my thoughts definitely go out to you. I can’t do much other than say that i’m sorry you’re going through this. A death isn’t ever easy, especially when it’s a parental figure. I hope you get to feeling better soon, healthwise and other. <3
I am so sorry for your loss.
sorry for your loss